It’s been a long time…

We haven’t posted an update in so long, it’s hard to know where to start!  There are months’ worth of slideshows sitting here on our computer, but we’re having trouble getting them online.  (Frustrating when I’ve spent hours putting them together!)  Until we can figure that out, here are a few recent snapshots to get you up to date on Nico (and us!).

Nico says hi from the playground:

We have started renovating the basement — bye bye paneling, hello Murphy bed, drywall, and future guest suite!

Here’s the before shot:

Bye bye bar!

The end of day 2:

And finally, here’s a shot of the 3 of us from when my parents were in town — we brought them to the zoo.

 

Hope you’re having a great summer, and if we can’t get our slideshows up online, I’ll at least try to post single photos more often so you remember what we look like.

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Nico’s Words

Nico has a lot to say these days.  He agreed to sit for a one-on-one exclusive interview with Mommy to share his knowledge with the world.

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Time for his Close-Up

I went a little crazy the past couple of weeks, taking lots of close-ups of Nico.  So I figured I’d post the February photos we’ve got so far before another backlog starts.  (Yes, I know I still need to do November and December’s photos!  They’re coming…I promise!)

Here’s your glimpse of Nico almost in real-time — the most recent photos were just taken on Monday of this week!

In terms of new developments, he started doing sign language last month, which has really opened a lot of doors in terms of communication.  His first 4 signs were nurse (as in milk), water, siren, and helicopter .  Guess that’s what happens when a boy grows up in the city!  Other signs he does include:  banana, yogurt, cat, daddy, more, bye bye, eat, shoe, bird, and, perhaps my favorite is the sign he made up for music.  We hadn’t taught him one for music, but it’s so important to him that he made his own up!  (He bends his elbows so his fists go up and down as if he’s dancing or drumming.) 

His first word is officially “hot.”  He says it consistently for the fireplace and our space heaters.  We don’t know why that particular word was so salient for him — we don’t warn him about hot things (he’s cautious enough on his own) and his babysitter’s go-to word is “careful.”  But he says “hot” any time he is near the fireplace or the space heater. Even more puzzling is that he has decided he is the household “hot” police, so if we stand too close to the fireplace or the space heater (particularly the fireplace), he pulls our pant leg and drags us until we walk far enough away for his comfort.  While this is adorable, it means I can no longer hang out in front of the fireplace to warm up. 

He can also say “daddy” and “bye bye,” but he’s somewhat less consistent with these than he is with “hot.”  And he says “moo,” “hee haw,” and “oof” (for “woof”) when he sees, or we talk about, cows, donkeys, or dogs.  

He likes looking at the family pictures hanging in our stairwell and having us identify family members as he points to them.

He still loves the vacuum cleaner.  He requests that we vacuum periodically and while we vacuum he pushes around his vuvuzela, “vacuuming” with us.  It’s very cute. 

He’s got good stamina.  His babysitter regularly takes him out for walks and he’ll walk 8 blocks or more at a time.  I had him at the zoo yesterday and despite the fact that it was well past naptime, he walked from the farm at the bottom all the way up to the reptile house — straight uphill for probably at least 1/4 of a mile (1/3 of a mile if you trust google pedometer).  People at the zoo are constantly commenting on him and we have determined that it’s because you actually see very few little kids walking around there.  Most kids under 3 or 4 are in strollers — some little ones might be in slings instead.  But most aren’t walking freely.  Nico just toddles along, keeping pace with the grown-ups and thinking nothing of it.  He must really stand out because so many people have a comment to make about him.

He’s finally eating now.  Still not a ton compared to other kids his age, but he can put away more than 1/2 cup of yogurt or oatmeal in a sitting (when he feels like it), so that’s a good start.  He seems to prefer beige foods — oatmeal, yogurt, banana, pear, bread, sometimes cheese.  He won’t touch peas or most green or orange foods.  But he likes pizza and soup (no matter the color) and, of course, chocolate.

And, finally, he’s loving the music class we enrolled him in.  After the first class he started drumming along with beats.  After the second one he started clapping along.  Now he not only requests that we play music, but he actually requests a particular song sometimes by doing the motions associated with it (rocking forward and backward like a horse or wiggling his pointer finger, for example).  Jenny may be right — his future may have music in it!  He certainly loves it right now.

In other news, our bulbs are emerging from the soil so I expect we’ll have spring photos up before we know it.  We are all eager for spring around here!

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Happy New Year!

You thought we were late with our holiday cards…here are our photos from January!  Highlights include adults making fools of themselves playing Guesstures at New Year’s, a late Christmas celebration with the Degans in New Jersey, a Caps game, some snow photos (a funny complementary video coming someday), and Frank’s 37th birthday.

Enjoy!

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Happy Birthday, Baby Nico!

December was a very full birthday month for the little Monkey.  We figured that a kid whose birth spanned 3 days (in terms of date, not in terms of actual length) deserved 3 days’ worth of parties.  And that’s what he got!

We started out with a small dinner party on his actual birthday.  Jenny was visiting from CA and she brought a tradition from her family — we put a bunch of items on a tray and the first one Nico picked up was supposed to tell us something about his future.  Items included a book, castanets (to represent music), money (coin and bill), a pen (red — could symbolize teacher or writer), a spoon (for cooking), a carrot (farming?  vegetarian?  it doesn’t matter – he didn’t pick it), a pig toy (again, not sure what it represented, but it didn’t matter because he didn’t pick it).  We thought this was a Chinese custom, but our friend Sam had also told us about his nephew doing this, and they’re Korean.  And we have a neighbor who’s Chinese and her family has never heard of it.  So we’re thinking maybe this is an LA pan-Asian thing and not so much just a Chinese thing.  (Sam and Jenny are both from LA.)  Nico didn’t even hesitate on his choice and he wasn’t interested in all that much other than the thing he picked.  Can you guess what he picked?  Look at the photos to see if you’re right.

Since his birthday was on a Thursday, we had his parties on the following weekends.  The Saturday right afer his birthday we had a morning party and an evening party.  We had initially planned on the morning one being for kids and the evening one for adults, but we had a mix at both parties and having two different ones made it so we were actually able to visit with everyone at both. 

We wrapped up Nico’s celebrations with a trip to NY the following weekend where Aunt Denise and Uncle Robert hosted his family party.  Almost all the family came from near and far to celebrate with him and he had a great time with his cousins.  Grandma and Grandpa got him a cassata cake which he enjoyed throwing on the floor.  Frank’s slices ensured that the cake designed to feed 40 people disappeared in half that many tummies.  Mmmm!

Please excuse all the close-up shots and the multiple cake shots…4 parties means 4 different opportunities to show him getting cake all over his face (or not…).  Enjoy!

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Merry Christmas!

OK, so it’s almost New Year’s, but this is a post linking to our Christmas photos.  I’m going to be updating our photos in reverse chronological order (all the way back to my dad’s 70th birthday in November), so the holiday greetings will be even more incongruous as time goes on.  :-)

Christmas has been fun so far this year, and it’s not quite over for us yet.  We’ll be celebrating a belated Christmas with my parents and Danny, Morgan, and Brady this weekend.  We began with an early Christmas (combined with first birthday party for Nico) on Long Island.  We spent Christmas itself here in DC, enjoying Christmas Eve dinner with Aunt Lee, Uncle Tommy, Matthew and Carrie.  Then we had Christmas morning to ourselves and enjoyed watching Nico open his presents and play with his new toys.  And we went to Sara, Aron, Salome and Cyrus’s house for Christmas dinner on Christmas Day. 

Photos from all of our Christmas festivities are here.  The next post will be all of Nico’s various birthday parties, so stay tuned.

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October Photos Are Up

Just a quick note to let you know that the October Photos are up.  Nico dressed up as a monkey for Halloween.  Those photos and lots more from the end of September and all of October are part of this slide show.  Enjoy!

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Please consider an end-of-year donation to PreventionWorks

For the past three years I have served as Treasurer on the Board of PreventionWorks, a local public health and social justice organization in Washington, DC.  As many of you know, prior to that I was a staff member there, conducting needle exchanges, providing referrals to treatment and services, and getting to know our clients.  PreventionWorks is an organization near and dear to my heart, and one to which I’ve given a lot of my time and energy over the past 5+ years.  The Board has pledged to help raise money through individual appeals to our family and friends, and I’ve opted to do my part through our blog.  I hope you’ll take the time to read the message below and help me support this important organization through your year-end giving.  Thank you!

Here in DC, 1 in 20 residents lives with HIV/AIDS, the highest rate in the country. For nearly 15 years, PreventionWorks has served thousands of injection drug users who battle not just the chronic diseases of addiction, HIV and hepatitis, but hunger, homelessness, mental health challenges, sexual abuse, violence and the stigma and isolation that come with being an addict.  Recovery from addiction can be a life-long road, particularly in a city where drug treatment resources are grossly inadequate.  PreventionWorks helps people to take the best possible care of themselves while they are on that journey by providing harm reduction and prevention materials, health education and screenings, food, support groups, case management, and linkages to medical care, drug treatment and other services.

While our organization has reasonably strong grant funding compared to similar organizations across the country, we struggle at times filling the gaps with unrestricted funds that would help our operation run more smoothly.  For example, recently the generator on the mobile unit broke down, undermining our ability to provide our services.  The mobile unit is the single most critical resource we have, as it facilitates our street-based services and outreach.  Replacing the generator alone will cost $3,500 in precious general operating funds that we currently don’t have.

To help us continue our full services into next year and beyond, we are launching a campaign to raise $10,000 in individual contributions by Thanksgiving.  Can you help?  Whether you can donate $25 or $250, it would be a huge contribution to fighting disease, improving health, and re-instilling dignity for some of the most marginalized people in society.  If you are thinking about a Christmas gift for me, this would be perfect.  Or maybe there is someone else on your Christmas list who would like to receive a gift to PreventionWorks made in their honor.

Please consider helping us reach our goal of raising $10,000 by Thanksgiving.  Contributions to PreventionWorks can be made through D.C.’s Catalogue for Philanthropy.  Or, if you wish, you can send a personal check made payable to PreventionWorks to me, and I’ll deliver it personally.  Thank you in advance for your critical support.

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